Friday, January 31, 2014

Layla:

Layla always has a great time going over to Aunt Renee's house on Friday mornings.  She gets to play with ALL of Claire and Anja's cool toys, and Aunt Renee is always giving her/buying her princess stuff.  She sure knows the way to this little girl's heart.  :)




Sitting on the cool bean bag chair in Claire and Anja's room...

Also, either Layla has an incredible sense of smell, or she has an incredibly sensitive sense of smell.  I know I've mentioned in the past how she will FREAK.OUT. when she smells certain things, like bananas.  She can't even be in the same room with a banana without covering her nose.  Well, I started using a new face lotion two days ago, and the first time I tried it I put some on, then went to sit next to Layla on the bed.  In about 9 seconds she was sniffing with disgust, looking around, and then said to me "What's that SMELL?  I smell SUNSCREEN!!!"  She sniffed around until she ended up on my face, acted super grossed out, and then asked me to leave the room and "...go somewhere else!!"  Good grief!  It was LOTION!  :)

In addition to her crazy sense of smell, Layla has been dealing with some crazy emotions lately.  The second half of age 4, especially the last 2 months, have brought TEARS upon TEARS to our poor little girl.  She gets hurt endlessly, and she is in tears endlessly.  I'm really hoping this is a normal developmental phase.  Please, God.  I'm working on taking actual injuries seriously, while at the same time teaching her that she can be a little bit brave when she gets a slight bump to one finger...which happens 50 times a day.  Fun, fun!

Wednesday, January 29, 2014

Dream fulfilled.



Today, one of my last "when-I-have-a-home" dreams is coming true:  we are buying a share of a cow.  :)

Lame, I know, but I'm so excited to stop buying the rather expensive organic, grass-fed, hormone free ground beef from Costco.  I just can't do regular ground beef anymore.  I can't.  It's too gross to me.  Ages ago, my book club read the book "Eating Animals," which I would recommend...if you can stomach it.  Ever since then I've been on a sloooooow journey to change my meat buying habits, and TODAY is a big-step-day in that journey!

Buying a cow is expensive though!  We didn't buy a whole one ourselves--our Life Group from church went in and got 2 cows (1,100 lbs of packaged beef--steaks, ground beef, roasts, and stew meat), and we're splitting them.  Jonas and I only got 1/4 of one, but we expect that to last us a good long time, especially since we don't really eat that much red meat.  Even with only buying 1/4, though, I still had to spread out paying for that sucker over 4 months--my budget can't handle a hit like that all at once! It's on days like today, when Jonas is going to show up with boxes and boxes of relatively healthy meat for us, that I just love being organized and prepared ahead of time.  :)

So, that's what I'm excited about today.  That, and the fact that I've been SUPER productive today--lately, actually.  I've gotten an itch--maybe the fabled "nesting" you hear about so much in pregnancy?  I wouldn't know.  I never had it with either of my other two kids.--to clean and organize all of our closets, cupboards, etc.  It's been so immensely satisfying.  *Happy sigh*  

So, the free 1/2-size chest freezer that I got from Craigslist is there in my basement, ready and waiting for Jonas to get home.  Three cheers for beef!

Monday, January 27, 2014

Minnesota--the entire state--is canceled today.

A high of -8 today.  A low of actual temp -23.  Wind chill is estimated at -45.  This state is CANCELED.

I felt so bad for Jonas today, so who still had to drive in to work.  :(  I can never convince that guy to just take a sick day every now and then...he has pretty much only ever taken a sick day to help watch the kids when I am sick!  


A weekend of celebrations!

The Lunar New Year:

On Saturday night we celebrated the Lunar New Year (all of Asia celebrates it, but it's also sometimes known as the Chinese New Year) with my family and some extra friends at our house.  The Lunar New Year doesn't officially start until Friday, January 31st, but Greg and Andrea were going to be in town this weekend to celebrate his birthday (with Claire's birthday as well!), so we decided to do a combo-celebration weekend so they could join us.

Here are some photos from the party!

That's the back of Noah Caron's head--we were so glad that Noah and Beth could join us, along with cutie baby Vivien!

It's the year of the horse, people! :)


Mom's famous Chinese spicy noodles.

I made pot-stickers...

...and tried making egg rolls for the first time!  They were not half as hard as I imagined they would be!  It's a great thing to have in my hip pocket, I think.  Jonas was a big help to me in making and rolling these out.  

You can see a pink/red cake with yellow sprinkles in the upper right corner of this picture.  That cake was dairy-free, so my kids could have a dessert because all of the cupcakes had diary in them.  Turns out the diary free cake was much m ore of a hit than the regular cupcakes! Funny stuff!  I used half "Earth Balance" and half coconut oil as the substitute for butter.  Turned out pretty tasty, all things considered!

Dragons.  Because...why not??

Jonas and Layla did a dance for everyone.  She LOVES dancing with her Papa.  



Layla, doing a very dramatic rendition of Mary Had a Little Lamb, and dancing too...




At the end of the night Jonas and Jon played some songs on the violin and guitar.  Henry is J's BIGGEST fan.


A Birthday Dinner for Greg and Claire!

On Sunday night we all went over to the Horsman's house to celebrate Greg and Claire's birthdays.  Greg chose chicken tika masala for his meal (and Mom did an amazing job of preparing it!), Lauren made a lemon blackberry cheesecake for dessert, and Claire chose death by chocolate for her dessert.  We ate WELL.  




Isn't it pretty??  It was very good, too!  I am intimidated by cheesecakes.  


Henry and Finn created a slide.  Henry would need "help" each time to reach the top...


...and Finn was very dedicated to the job of saving Henry...

...and then they would slide down!  :)










Thursday, January 23, 2014

When it wasn't "deathly cold" outside...

I think this was last Saturday, or sometime around there.  It was 30 degrees that day, NOT -34 like it is today.  This winter has been insane with low temps and windchill!!  Normal snowfall, I would say, but the cold has been awful.  

Thursday, January 16, 2014

A few updates:

Finn:
Finn got a haircut yesterday.  He looks sharp now, and he'll tell you very happily that he got a haircut, but the experience itself was less than pleasant.  He HATES the clippers and screams the whole time they are being used.  Fun fun!

He had a rough time going to bed tonight.  Normally he goes down just fine, without a peep, but tonight he was up in his crib and calling out for someone just minutes after being put down.  When I went in he was very sad and wanted to get out and go downstairs, and as this obviously was not an option I suggested I sing him a song instead.  I had to leave the room a few times in the next few minutes, and he would just sob and sob--SO unlike him, poor boy.  He finally fell asleep with me singing next to his crib, but the thing that melted my heart was walking into the room and having him say "Mama, I just miss you!!"  Awwwwwwwww.  I'll sit here and sing for hours, buddy.  :)

Layla:
Layla has started doing this new thing that is drastically increasing my laundry load.  Every time she passes gas she is convinced she needs new underwear AND pants, because they all smell poopy.  Hard to argue with this logic, BUT...sometimes this means many outfit changes in a day!  Hoping this phase passes soon.  Sort of.  But I laugh almost every time she does it too, so that's likely not helping things to move along quickly...

Layla loves to sing.  LOVES it.  She sings all the time around the house, and loudly too.  I love to listen to it, especially since she doesn't really get the lyrics to most songs.  Unless the song is a really slow, calm song, Layla will only have--at most--50% of the words correct.  And, the words that she doesn't get don't even sound like words...just sounds and syllables mixed together.  Yet, she still sings with VOLUME and gusto, every time!  I got a video of it this afternoon...pretty good stuff.  I'll post it soon.

Me:
I am on the slow recovery track from a pretty bad pinched nerve.  THAT was fun.  :(  My right wrist and elbow started hurting two days ago, but I woke up that night at 1:15 a.m. in pretty bad pain all up and down my entire right arm.  I took Tylenol (which is allowed when pregnant), had Jonas rub pain cream ALL up and down my arm, and then later put pain-relieving oils on it...but nothing helped.  Not totally surprising, I guess, as nerve pain is rather...tough.  I went to the Chiropractor the next morning (after calling my OB.  They weren't too concerned with me from a "high risk pregnancy" standpoint, so they suggested I go ahead with the chiro and let them know if I was still in pain a day later) and I'm so thankful I did.  I can't tell you how many times that man has saved my butt!  He did some adjusting and stretching with me, and I could tell I was feeling better, but for sure not 100% last night.  I slept VERY carefully last night on an orthopedic pillow, on my back, with pillows under my knees, and my arm laying flat at my side. I now feel even more improved this morning and will go back to the Chiro tomorrow morning for a last adjustment for this issue.  The only thing that really hurts now is my wrist when I use it a lot, and I get an ache that goes up my arm to my elbow at least when I use the arm a lot, but I imagine that will go away with time.  I'm also going to borrow a wrist brace from a friend just in case this is also pregnancy carpel tunnel related.

Jonas:
Jonas gets to drive home in LIGHT these days...so that's nice, especially for the guy who needs light more than almost anyone I know.  :)  On the downside, work is pretty boring for him these days, so I still pray regularly for a new job for him sometime soon that would be interesting for him, at the very least, and where people would appreciate him and the work he does.

His car died and would not start over a week ago, when the Polar Vortex was hanging heavy over MN, so we're still trying to figure that out.  Dad is in Poland until the 21st, though, so fortunately we have time to get things worked out before he gets back--Jonas can use his car to get to work then.  I'd give it a 50/50 chance that this car is just dead.  It has over 200,000 miles on it and has served us very well...but, after 200,000 miles how much money do you REALLY want to put into a vehicle? None is the correct answer.

Family stuff:
Last Wednesday night we all went here, to the Oxford Community Center "Great River Water Park," and boy did the kids have a blast!  I think their name, frankly, is a little grand for what is actually present there, but it's just perfect for our kids at this age.  Layla had been asking for weeks and weeks to go to a pool, so I was glad to finally make that dream come true...and on an absolutely frigid day, no less.  On Monday and Wednesday afternoon/evenings the park is just $2 per person, so THAT is why we went that night as well.  Cheap thrills!!  Layla made friends with a girl several years older than her and still talks about her "friend at the pool."

On a similar note, we hope to take the kids up to Duluth again for a little family winter vacation sometime soon, like we did last year.  We went here, to the Edgewater Resort and Waterpark, and had a blast, so we hope to do that again--maybe in mid February?  I'm not sure how long I'll FIT in my swimsuit, so we better do it soon!

Thursday, January 9, 2014

24 weeks:

I had a Dr. appointment yesterday, and everything looks fine.  I am now going in every 2 weeks, soon to be increased to every week, then 2-3 times a week, etc.  Mercy I hate that drive in the winter!

Anyway, things look good.  As I am in there so often I'm not so concerned about getting pictures each time, but my ultrasound tech was VERY concerned that I leave with some pictures, so here they are.  

The tech was way into her fingers...I think she took about 10 pictures of them...

There were really NO good profile shots to be had.  Little girl was moving and grooving the whole time.  So the tech zoomed out and gave me this full body shot.

3D pictures of a developing baby are super creepy in my humble opinion, but I'm including them in case YOU like them.  :)  This is baby girl with both hands up in front of her face.  

A "thumb sucking" picture, although it's doubtful that she was actually sucking her thumb...but who knows.  

It's so interesting for me to see this picture, because I see LAYLA.  Not in any sort of physical features way, but in the thumb sucking and ear holding.  That was/is Layla's #1 way of being comforted:  sucking a nuk (I wish she had been a thumb sucker...), and then holding her own ear or my ear.  Sometimes, when I go in to check on her at night, she'll be holding BOTH of her own ears.  :)  So, I totally see Layla here...Finn never did that.  And then I start to panic because I see LAYLA here, and Layla was a hoooooooorrible baby!  I have to talk myself down from the ledge all the time because this baby is another girl.  Prayers for another Finn disposition appreciated.  I already know that I'll give up dairy 3 weeks before her birth, etc. (and do other food-restricting things to my diet, possibly with gluten again like I did for Layla, and no peanuts, etc.) to make sure that nursing goes as smoothly as possible.  Sigh.  


Such a good sport, Uncle Eric!

Uncle Eric came to spend the afternoon with us before heading back down to Kansas, and he did a VERY sacrificial thing:  he played Princess Candyland with Layla.  

Layla got THREE games for Christmas, so we've been spending lots of time playing them.  You would expect that of a mother, right?  But for an uncle to do so--that shows love.  

In case you wanted to know, Layla kicked Eric's butt in the game--she won in about 5 minutes by drawing one of those picture cards that sends you right to the end.  Eric totally lucked out there!!




Looking back and catching up:

A few photos from Christmas Eve at our house:

Fun with the Kahnkes

The spread.



A few photos from New Years Eve at my parent's house:

Funn with "Unca Geg."

Henry, enduring a hug from Layla.


A few photos from New Years Day at our house:

Finn was LOVING the Knight legos.  




Jonas, Jon, and Lauren...in PJs...with bed-hair...watching YouTube videos on a tiny phone.  

Because why use a TV, iPad, or computer??

The girls exploring a few gifts together...

We had Pioneer Woman's coffee cake, bacon, eggs, OJ and coffee for breakfast...

...and then LATER we had cinnamon rolls for an afternoon snack.  

Yes.