Thursday, April 27, 2017

Finn's Birthday

I know.  I forgot.  Sigh.  :/

But I just forgot to BLOG about it, not to actually HAVE it, so that's good, right??  :)


Again, I forgot to take pictures of him opening presents.  

SORRY.  Sheesh.  What do you want from me, people??  :)  Haha.  


Finn LOVES this scooter.  Cora got a pink one for Christmas, and Finn basically used it all the time.  For his birthday he REALLY wanted a scooter of his own, and a watch that glowed.  He got both.  Jackpot!

This was the first year Finn asked for a birthday party, so last week I took him and his friend Tomas (my cousin's son...they see each other at most holidays), along with Layla and Cora, to Sea Life at the MOA.  I normally avoid the MOA like a plague, but it was homeschool week pricing at Sea Life, so all the kids were $7.50 rather than their usual insane pricing.  YES.  I knew Finn would love this, and again, it didn't require me to craft and host kids, so that's what we did. 

We went through the exhibit twice, each kid got to pick out one thing from the gift shop after, and then we went to McDonalds play area for lunch.  STILL cheaper than Layla's themed birthday parties...haha.  I took no photos because trying to keep track of four kids there was taxing the limits for me.  So, enjoy some stock photos of Sea Life from google! :)  



Normally you can pet the sting rays and baby sharks, but that day all the sting rays were pregnant, so it was off limits.  Boooooooooooooo.  :(  

I would LOVE to have a jellyfish tank in my bedroom.  They are so soothing and calming...provided you aren't near their tentacles.  



THREE!!!

My baby turned three today.  I can hardly believe it!  This little child has been such a sweet blessing in our lives.  She was a sleeping giant her first year of life, then awakened with full force from that point on...haha.  Cora is LIFE and ENERGY and VIBRANCY and LOVE and PASSION and EMOTION!

Cora also loves Chocolate covered ice cream.
There are almost no foods Cora dislikes:  the only three I can think of are mashed potatoes, avocado, and ....shoot.  I can't remember the third one now.  Give me a second.  It'll come back.  (It was something with the same consistency as mashed potatoes...)
But still...only three is pretty good, right?  I had no say in that.  Children are their own people.  She came to me this way.  I'm just thankful because there's a lot less mommy guilt with a child who is naturally a good eater.  ;)


To celebrate Cora's energetic life today we took our good friends the Krebsbachs with us to Good Times Park for three hours this afternoon.  (I'm sorry I took no photos...Cora is hard to pin down for photos when she is constantly running.  RUNNING.  From one event to the next at GTP).  

Then we went to the library, and then on home where we had a simple dinner and Cora opened her gifts from Aunt Laura and Grammy.  (Thank you, both!  Photos/video coming soon)

Behold:  a birthday party for a 3-year-old...haha.  It cost me about $20 total.  ;)  THAT is perfection, folks.  She had fun, others had fun, and it didn't require me to craft, have a theme, or deal with many 3-year-olds in my house.  Thank you sweet Lord.  

A Year with Frog and Toad




Tonight the older kids and I went to see A Year with Frog and Toad at the Minneapolis Children's Theatre.  It was a very simple, sweet play, and the kids enjoyed it for sure.

On the way out Finn asked what was the next play we were going to see (this was our 5th play of the year because I got a nosebleed-seat subscription as part of my homeschool budget for the year).  I told him I didn't have anything planned yet because this was the last play of the season, and I was still trying to decide if I should renew for next year.  Finn looked at me in horror:  "WHAT????  No more plays?????"  Haha.  I am delighted they are enjoying the play experience so much.

The noise-canceling headphones makes Finn a very happy boy for plays.

I got to sit next to Elsa this play...imagine that!



We barely made it in time today.  First, I forgot the tickets and had to turn around and drive back home to get them.  This NEVER, ever, ever happens to me.  EVER.  I'm still reeling from a bit of shock...haha.  My brain has been a bit fuzzy lately...maybe I need to work on making sure my days are not as buys as today was.

NEXT, we got to the theatre with 10 minutes to spare and it was a mad house.  There was an event going on at the Minneapolis Institute of Arts, which is in the same building as the Children's Theatre, so things were insane.  No parking, anywhere.  All my usual ramps were full.  I finally found parking on the street along the highway, 1/2 block south of Franklin Avenue.  Sketchball territory for sure.  But, we didn't get mugged, so it all worked out I guess.



Tuesday, April 25, 2017

Backyard fun recently:


New benefit to the trampoline:  shade in our BRIGHT and WARM backyard.  :)
Perfect for a picnic blanket and a box full of princess toys.


Finn and Layla ran in 3 days ago and I about died laughing.
They had "traded places."  Finn danced ballet for us and Layla spoke in a very low voice.  You know...like Finn does.  ;)

Cora helping Papa get the bike back up and running...



Tuesday, April 18, 2017

More Books

Two books I've been reading recently:



I finished "Hallelujah Anyway" by Anne Lamott today, and I feel bad...but I have to give this book one big fat "MEH."  It did absolutely nothing for me.  I think she is lovely and witty, and clever and sharp...but I just can't with this book.  I can't.  I finished it, which was an act of mercy on my part...haha!  I can tell that she often has beautiful things to say, but I am often too annoyed by her rambling, rabbit-trail tangent-built-on-tangent to be present enough to appreciate it by the time it arrives.

NO.  Please.  It's clearly a book written by an ENFP...haha.  I need MUCH more linear thinking and facts than she provides.

There are two upsides to this book:  It is very short, and it is a very easy read.  :)



(one quick note:  Don't read this book when you are tired.  Walter writes for those of the scholarly persuasion. ;) )

If you could find someone who writes in the exact opposite style of Anne Lamott, it's Walter Brueggemann, so maybe it's not fair that I'm reading his book so soon after hers.

It's probably also not fair that this topic, and ones similar to it, are my favorite thing to contemplate, analyze, embrace, and be intentional about these days.  He wins the topic jackpot.  

I'm LOVING this book.  Now, it's not a scientific measurement, I'm aware, but I know a book is close to my heart when I need to keep a highlighter and a pencil handy, and I can't stop pausing to highlight and mark up everything, along with making notes in the margins.  This is that book for me.  I basically highlighted the entire preface to the book before deciding I might need different standards for my notes.  (Side note:  I didn't highlight one single thing in Hallelujah Anyway.  Yikes.  That was probably just because I was annoyed by the half way mark, though.  There likely was stuff I should have highlighted and just didn't, to SHOW HER. ;) )

A few quotes I loved, just from the preface:

"...we may consider the sabbath as an alternative to the endless demands of economic reality, more specifically the demands of market ideology that depends, as Adam Smith has already seen, on the generation of needs and desires that will leave us endlessly "rest-less," inadequate, unfulfilled, and in pursuit of that which may satiate desire.  Those requirements concern endless predation so that we are as a society of 24/7 multitasking in order to achieve, accomplish, perform, and possess.  But the demands of market ideology pertain as much to consumption as they do to production.  Thus the system of commodity requires that we want more, have more, own more, use more, eat and drink more.  The rat race of such predation and usurpation is a restlessness that issues inescapably in anxiety that is often at the edge of being unmanageable; ..."  (Bold and italics mine, not Walter's)

YES!!!!  GET 'EM, Walter!!!! Haha.  Love it.  Endlessly restless, unfulfilled, in pursuit of the next best thing.  Blah.  Hard pass on that as my life, man.  The way our culture teaches us, relentlessly, that achieving, accomplishing, performing and possessing are the true path to happiness?  Dead on.  That has to be intentionally un-learned and pushed back against, in a very real way.  I'm game, Walter!

"In our own contemporary context of the rat race of anxiety, the celebration of Sabbath is an act of both resistance and alternative.  It's resistance because it is a visible insistence that our lives are not defined by the production and consumption of commodity goods.  Such an act of resistance requires enormous intentionality and communal reinforcement amid the barrage of seductive pressures from the insatiable insistences of the market, with its intrusion into every part of our life from the family to the national budget.  In our anxious society, to cite a case in point, one of the great "seductions of the Pharaoh" is the fact that "soccer practice" invades the rest day.  Families, largely contained in market ideology, think of themselves as helpless before the requirements of such commitment.  In context it requires (or "would require, " subjunctive, contrary to fact) enormous, communal resolve to resist the demand."

(Blogger is driving me nuts, here!  It's won't let me edit the color of my writing appropriately in just this section!  Grrrrrrrrrrrr.)
I love the phrase "seductions of the Pharaoh." Such a good visual of the ways we can cling to thing that actually are bondage, in our culture.  Isn't that such a great way to describe the way we can easily fall into the "parent trap," these days?  "Oh, this is what people do when they have kids?  They sign them up for 5 million things that they 'need' in order to be well-rounded and have any chance of playing sports and getting a good education?  Okay.  Well, I guess we do that then."  Yuck.  It's easy to do, if you haven't first set what your immovable priorities are.  For us, as a young family, having dinner time together is one immovable.  If soccer practice were to happen at dinner time, or on Sunday...welp. Bummer.  Guess you aren't playing soccer then.  Decision made.  It's nice to have that "wall of no" set up ahead of time to protect childhood and our most important priorities for our family.  (Research, by the way, backs up family dinners as important.  It does not back up soccer practice as crucial, especially at young ages, in highly competitive manners, and in an obsessive manner (i.e. more than a few times a week).  Interesting, isn't it?)

I know the soccer practice thing is not Walter's main point here, I just latched on to it for a moment...don't worry.  I'm still tracking with him.  :)

"This book is addressed exactly to those who are "weary and heavy laden," made so by the insatiable requirements of our society--in its taxation for the sake of imperialism, in its social conformity that urges doing more and having more (now perniciously embodied in "teaching to test"), in its frightening intent that there should be no "free lunch" to anyone, in its assumption that there is a technological resolution of every human problem, in its pathologies of greed and control."

Gosh I just love this man.  And I'm not even writing in the actual chapters yet...haha!  BINGO.  

I feel like pumping my fist into the air and then going and talking with like-minded people about this stuff.  *swoon*

Monday, April 17, 2017

Sunday, April 16, 2017

Easter 2017

Happy Easter!  He is Risen! :)

Photos taken today after a gorgeous church service here in MN.  Not a cloud in the sky...pure sunshine and 65 degrees.  A perfect Easter morning!

More photos of festivities to come later...

(Any guesses as to which child was NOT into the idea of a photo shoot??...)





The pensive one.

(Almost completely lost it....)

(And she's GONE...)


And a few photos from the egg hunt in my parent's backyard:
























 This next series:  "the faces and emotions of Cora, age 2"













He was trying to swing and wink at me.  :)